Ep. 44 Single and Sleighing: Enjoying The Holidays When You’re Single
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On this special holiday episode of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast, we're taking on an often overlooked topic - being single during the holidays. Joined by our fabulous co-hosts, Moe Ari and Tiffany, we unpack the realities, challenges, and unique joys that can come with being unattached during this season. Listen in as we explore how holiday romantic comedies can evoke feelings of grief and loneliness for single folks, share our personal favorite holiday movies (and why we love them even when they're sad), and discuss the pressures that often come with traditional holiday activities and expectations.
We also get honest about the not-so-festive side of the season, like invasive questions from relatives about relationships and fertility, the impact of social media posts flaunting seemingly perfect couples and families, and the need for representation of black joy in holiday movies. But it's not all doom and gloom! We share practical tips on approaching conversations with single loved ones, advocating for oneself, and creating a sense of joy and celebration that doesn't hinge on having a partner.
Finally, we tackle a listener's dilemma about inviting an ex to spend the holidays with their family, reminding everyone of the importance of setting boundaries and open communication. We even touch on expanding the definition of family to include close friends and ex-partners who have become like family.
The episode wraps up with a preview of an upcoming conversation on grief during the holidays, a festive game of "truth or truth," and our usual reminder that, single or not, you are loved and your own #lovegoals. So, whether you're single, taken, or somewhere in between, tune in for a holiday episode that promises to be as warm, comforting, and insightful as a mug of hot cocoa by the fire.
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