Ep 24. Is Your Relationship Boring?: Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships
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Have long-term relationships sentenced you to a life of monotony? From the honeymoon stage to a decade into marriage, we're taking a hard look at long-term relationships in this episode. Embarking on this adventure together, we've discovered that the secret to a vibrant relationship is more than just shared interests and compatibility. It's about being intentional in our choices, our conversations, and our moments of connection. Even in the monotony of daily routines, especially during parenthood, there's a unique joy that can be found, and it's this joy that keeps our relationship from becoming mundane.
Let's face it, expectations can often dampen the fun in relationships and lead to boredom. As we grow and evolve, we've realized the need to shift our expectations and live in the now. We discuss how being present in every moment can be a game changer. It's not just about accepting changes, it's about embracing them, using them to invigorate the relationship and make it exciting again. We challenge the myth that marriage or parenthood equates to a dull life. It's time we redefine what fun means in our present circumstances, instead of comparing it to our past. So join us, as we journey to become our own #lovegoals!
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(0:00:08) - Navigating Long-Term Relationships and Avoiding Boredom (12 Minutes)
We tackle the difficult question of whether relationships get boring as they progress.We discuss how things can become monotonous after a while, especially when it comes to raising children. We reflect on the importance of being intentional in order to keep the relationship exciting and how it's possible to make sure that even the mundane moments still hold a sense of joy. We're grateful for the listener question and for all of you tuning in to join us on this journey of becoming our own hashtag love goals!
(0:12:34) - Shifting Expectations for a Fulfilling Relationship (10 Minutes)
We explore how expectations can often lead to a feeling of boredom in relationships. We recognize that our expectations of life need to shift in order to enjoy what life is now. We discuss the importance of being intentional in our choices and conversations, and how to create moments of joy and connection even in the presence of a routine. We also explore the power of being present in the moment and how that can help us to create a life that we can actually enjoy.
(0:22:21) - Creating Fun in Relationships With Change (12 Minutes)
As we age, our lives are constantly evolving and changing. We explore how embracing these changes and transitions allows us to find new ways to spice up our relationship. We challenge the idea that marriage or having children leads to a dull life, and urge people to evaluate their current life circumstances to decide what fun looks like now, instead of looking to their past. We promote acceptance of the present moment and intentionally changing the energy in the moment.
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